Story of Ego and Human Beings
A lion has great physical energy. It can run fast, hunt, and fight. But a human has something much bigger than that: mind, heart, and spirit energy. A human can build cities, write books, travel to space, and even change the world. Still, there is one thing that can break all this power – ego.
Long ago, before humans were created, there was a great event. This event was like a trilogy between God, the Devil (Shaitan), and the angels.
The Beginning
God created everything: the heavens, the earth, the animals, the angels, and the jinns. Angels were made of light, always obeying God. Jinns were made of fire, and some of them could choose good or bad. One jinn, named Iblis (the Devil), became very proud because he worshiped God for thousands of years.
The Special Creation
Then God decided to create a new being – the human (Insan). But humans were different. They were made from clay, weak in body, but God gave them a special gift: knowledge, wisdom, and choice.
When God told the angels that He would create humans, the angels asked:
“Will You create one who will spread blood and fight on earth?”
God replied:
“I know what you do not know.”
This meant that God had placed something very special in humans – the ability to learn, to think, to forgive, to love, and to grow.
The Test of Ego
After creating Adam (the first human), God ordered the angels and Iblis to bow down as a sign of respect, not worship. All the angels bowed, but Iblis refused. Why? Ego.
Iblis said:
“I am better than him. You made me from fire, and You made him from clay.”
This one thought of pride and ego destroyed all his worship of thousands of years. He was removed from the mercy of God. From that day, he became the enemy of humans.
Human as Ashraf-ul-Makhluqat
Even though humans are weak, their gift of choice and knowledge made them greater than lions, angels, and even jinns. That’s why humans were called Ashraf-ul-Makhluqat (the best of creation).
But there was a condition: humans must control their ego. If they let ego rule, they can fall lower than animals. But if they control ego with love, kindness, patience, and wisdom, they can rise even higher than angels.
The Lesson
- A lion has big energy in body.
- A human has bigger energy in mind and spirit.
- But ego destroys everything.
- Ego made the Devil fall.
- Ego can also destroy humans.
- Without ego, humans can become the most honorable creation of God.
✨ So, the real battle is not outside with lions or enemies. The real battle is inside, with our ego.
🌸 Ending Ego from the Mother’s Womb: Meditation for Pregnant Women
🌼 Introduction
Ego is like a seed. If it grows strong, it becomes pride, anger, and selfishness. If it is softened from the very beginning — even from the mother’s womb — the child’s heart can grow humble, pure, and close to God. A mother’s thoughts, her prayers, her words, and her food all reach the baby inside. That is why pregnancy is not just physical — it is also spiritual.
Here we will see how a pregnant woman can practice meditation to end ego for herself and for her baby.
🌿 Islamic Meditation for Pregnant Women
1. Zikr of Allah
- Sit in a quiet place.
- Place one hand on the heart, one on the belly.
- Breathe slowly and say softly:
- “SubhanAllah” (Glory be to Allah)
- “Alhamdulillah” (All praise to Allah)
- “Allahu Akbar” (Allah is the Greatest)
- Imagine light entering your heart, then passing to your womb, surrounding your baby.
💡 Why: This zikr fills both mother and baby with humility. Ego melts because you keep remembering that all greatness belongs only to Allah.
2. Reciting Qur’an with Heart
- Recite Surah Maryam, Surah Yaseen, or Surah Rahman softly.
- Imagine every word is flowing like water to the baby.
- Feel the baby bathing in the mercy of Allah.
💡 Why: Qur’an is healing. It makes the child’s soul peaceful and reduces the seeds of ego.
3. Dua for Humility
A mother can say:
“Ya Allah, make my child soft in heart, humble in spirit, and full of love. Protect my child from pride and ego.”
💡 Why: A mother’s dua is never rejected.
🌏 Other Religions: Meditations for Pregnant Women
✨ Christianity
- Pregnant mothers read Psalms or pray with rosary.
- Soft prayers like: “Lord, make my child gentle and kind.”
- Singing hymns with love creates peace for the baby.
✨ Hinduism
- Mothers chant “Om Shanti” (sound of peace).
- Gentle yoga breathing: inhale peace, exhale pride.
- Imagine the baby surrounded by calm ocean waves.
✨ Buddhism
- Mothers practice “Metta Meditation” (Loving-kindness).
- Repeat in heart: “May my child be free from ego, may my child be full of love.”
- Visualize sending golden light to the baby.
✨ Sikhism
- Mothers recite Waheguru softly, feeling the vibration go into the womb.
- This vibration calms both mother and baby.
🌸 Science Behind It
- Mother’s Emotions Transfer: When the mother is calm, baby’s brain chemicals also stay calm.
- Hormones: Love and gratitude increase oxytocin (“love hormone”), which reaches the baby. Ego decreases because stress hormones (like cortisol) are lowered.
- Sound Energy: Zikr, prayer, chants — all create sound vibrations. These vibrations are felt by the baby in the womb, shaping their emotional nature.
🌟 Daily Meditation Routine for Pregnant Women
- Sit peacefully for 10 minutes morning and evening.
- Place hands on heart and belly.
- Do zikr or prayer softly, with deep breathing.
- Visualize light, love, and humility entering the womb.
- End with gratitude: “Thank You Allah for this gift of life.”
🌷 Conclusion
Ego can be softened even before birth. The womb is the first school of the child. If the mother lives with zikr, prayer, calmness, and love, the baby will receive these gifts too.
✨ In Islam, zikr of Allah is the strongest medicine against ego.
✨ In other religions too, prayers, chants, and meditation carry the same message: to give birth not only to a body, but to a humble soul.
🌷 7-Day Womb Meditation Program to End Ego from the Mother’s Womb
🌸 Introduction
Pregnancy is not only the growth of the baby’s body — it is also the shaping of the baby’s heart and soul. Whatever the mother feels, thinks, eats, and speaks, reaches the baby in some way. If the mother practices zikr, dua, and calm meditation, the baby learns humility even before birth.
This 7-day program is a gentle routine that any pregnant woman can follow.
🌼 Day 1 – Heart Connection
- Meditation: Place one hand on your heart, one on your belly.
- Breathe slowly. Say softly: “SubhanAllah, Alhamdulillah, Allahu Akbar.”
- Imagine your heart sending light into the baby.
- Dua: “Ya Allah, make my child pure and free from pride.”
- Diet Tip: Eat fresh dates or fruits → they give natural sweetness and energy to the heart.
🌼 Day 2 – Peaceful Sound
- Meditation: Recite Surah Rahman softly. Imagine the words entering the womb like waves of light.
- Breathing: Inhale peace, exhale stress.
- Dua: “Ya Allah, fill my child’s life with mercy, not arrogance.”
- Diet Tip: Drink warm milk with honey (Sunnah) → brings calmness.
🌼 Day 3 – Gratitude Practice
- Meditation: List 5 blessings (family, baby, health, food, breath). Whisper “Alhamdulillah” for each.
- Visualization: See your baby smiling inside, feeling safe.
- Dua: “Ya Allah, make my child thankful and humble.”
- Diet Tip: Add pomegranate or apple → they give purity and energy to the blood.
🌼 Day 4 – Forgiveness Meditation
- Meditation: Close eyes. Imagine a white light washing your heart clean. Whisper “Astaghfirullah” again and again.
- Effect: Releases anger, softens ego.
- Dua: “Ya Allah, forgive me, and make my child forgiving and kind.”
- Diet Tip: Eat lentils or soup → simple foods teach simplicity, which kills ego.
🌼 Day 5 – Loving-Kindness
- Meditation: Repeat softly: “Ya Wadud” (O Most Loving).
- Send this love to your baby with each breath.
- Visualization: Imagine hugging your baby with light.
- Dua: “Ya Allah, make my child loving and soft in heart.”
- Diet Tip: Drink plenty of water → water washes away pride, brings balance.
🌼 Day 6 – Humility Practice
- Meditation: Sit in sajda position (without stress on the belly).
- Whisper: “Allahu Akbar” and breathe slowly.
- Feel your forehead touching earth → a sign that ego is nothing before Allah.
- Dua: “Ya Allah, keep me and my child always humble before You.”
- Diet Tip: Eat barley or whole grain bread → Sunnah food that keeps body simple and strong.
🌼 Day 7 – Light and Future
- Meditation: Imagine a golden light from the sky entering your head, going into your heart, then womb, and surrounding your baby.
- Whisper: “La ilaha illallah.”
- Dua: “Ya Allah, guide my child to Your path, make him/her Ashraf-ul-Makhluqat with humility.”
- Diet Tip: Use olive oil (Qur’anic food) → massage a little or add to salad. It is called blessed oil.
🌟 Science Side (Why This Works)
- Breathing & Calm: Reduces stress hormones → baby feels peace, not tension.
- Zikr & Qur’an: Creates sound waves → baby hears and learns humility.
- Duas: Shape the baby’s emotional nature.
- Simple Sunnah diet: Dates, honey, milk, pomegranate, barley, lentils, olive oil → all balance hormones and create a calm mind.
🌸 Conclusion
This 7-day program is just the start. It can be repeated again and again during pregnancy. The mother becomes calmer, ego becomes softer, and the baby learns humility even before birth.
✨ Remember: The first madrasa (school) is the womb. If ego is not planted there, the child grows with love, kindness, and closeness to Allah.
🌿 How to Defeat Ego with Quran and the Beautiful Names of Allah
Introduction
A lion has strong muscles. A human has something stronger: the power of mind, heart, and spirit. But there is one enemy that can break this power — ego. Ego is pride, arrogance, the feeling of “I am better than others.”
The Qur’an tells us many times that ego is dangerous. It was ego that destroyed Iblis (Satan). It is ego that can destroy us if we are not careful. But the Qur’an also gives us guidance and a cure: humility, remembering Allah, and calling Him by His Beautiful Names.
🌸 Story Reminder: Ego of Iblis
When Allah created Adam (the first human), He ordered the angels and Iblis to bow in respect. All angels obeyed, but Iblis refused. He said,
“I am better than him. You made me from fire, and You made him from clay.”
That single thought of ego destroyed his thousands of years of worship. From that day, he became the enemy of humans.
This shows us: even one drop of pride can ruin everything.
📖 10 Quran Verses About Ego and Humility
Here are ten verses from the Qur’an. Each verse has Arabic, simple English, and easy Urdu meaning.
1. Surah Al-Baqarah (2:34)
Arabic:
وَإِذْ قُلْنَا لِلْمَلَائِكَةِ اسْجُدُوا لِآدَمَ فَسَجَدُوا إِلَّا إِبْلِيسَ أَبَىٰ وَاسْتَكْبَرَ وَكَانَ مِنَ الْكَافِرِينَ
English:
“When We said to the angels, ‘Bow to Adam,’ they all bowed except Iblis. He refused and was proud.”
Urdu:
جب اللہ نے کہا فرشتوں سے آدم کو سجدہ کرو تو سب نے کیا، مگر ابلیس نے انکار کیا غرور کی وجہ سے۔
2. Surah Al-A‘raf (7:12)
Arabic:
قَالَ أَنَا خَيْرٌ مِّنْهُ خَلَقْتَنِي مِن نَّارٍ وَخَلَقْتَهُ مِن طِينٍ
English:
“He (Iblis) said: I am better than him. You created me from fire and You created him from clay.”
Urdu:
ابلیس نے کہا میں آدم سے بہتر ہوں، مجھے آگ سے بنایا اور اسے مٹی سے۔
3. Surah Al-Kahf (18:50)
Arabic:
وَإِذْ قُلْنَا لِلْمَلَائِكَةِ اسْجُدُوا۟ لِـَٔادَمَ فَسَجَدُوٓا۟ إِلَّآ إِبْلِيسَۖ كَانَ مِنَ ٱلْجِنِّ فَفَسَقَ عَنْ أَمْرِ رَبِّهِۦ
English:
“When We said to the angels, ‘Bow to Adam,’ they all did except Iblis. He was from the jinn and he disobeyed his Lord.”
Urdu:
جب اللہ نے کہا فرشتوں سے آدم کو سجدہ کرو تو سب نے کیا، مگر ابلیس جنوں میں سے تھا اور حکم نہ مانا۔
4. Surah Luqman (31:18)
Arabic:
وَلا تُصَعِّرْ خَدَّكَ لِلنَّاسِ وَلا تَمْشِ فِي الْأَرْضِ مَرَحًا
English:
“Do not turn your face away from people in pride, and do not walk on earth with arrogance. Allah does not like proud people.”
Urdu:
لوگوں کو حقیر نہ سمجھو، زمین پر غرور سے مت چلو۔ اللہ غرور کرنے والوں کو پسند نہیں کرتا۔
5. Surah Az-Zumar (39:72)
Arabic:
فَبِئْسَ مَثْوَى الْمُتَكَبِّرِينَ
English:
“How terrible is the home of the arrogant.”
Urdu:
غرور کرنے والوں کا ٹھکانا بہت برا ہے۔
6. Surah Ghafir (40:35)
Arabic:
كَذَٰلِكَ يَطْبَعُ اللَّهُ عَلَىٰ كُلِّ قَلْبٍ مُّتَكَبِّرٍ جَبَّارٍ
English:
“Allah seals the hearts of every proud and arrogant one.”
Urdu:
اللہ ہر مغرور اور سخت دل کے دل پر مہر لگا دیتا ہے۔
7. Surah Al-Baqarah (2:206)
Arabic:
وَإِذَا قِيلَ لَهُ اتَّقِ اللَّهَ أَخَذَتْهُ الْعِزَّةُ بِالْإِثْمِ
English:
“When it is said to him, ‘Fear Allah,’ his pride in sin takes him further.”
Urdu:
جب اسے کہا جائے اللہ سے ڈرو تو اس کا غرور اسے مزید گناہ میں ڈال دیتا ہے۔
8. Surah An-Nahl (16:22)
Arabic:
قُلُوبُهُم مُّنكِرَةٌ وَهُم مُّسْتَكْبِرُونَ
English:
“Their hearts reject and they are arrogant.”
Urdu:
ان کے دل انکار کرتے ہیں اور وہ غرور میں ہیں۔
9. Surah Al-Furqan (25:63)
Arabic:
وَعِبَادُ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الَّذِينَ يَمْشُونَ عَلَى الْأَرْضِ هَوْنًا
English:
“The servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk on the earth with humility.”
Urdu:
رحمٰن کے بندے زمین پر عاجزی سے چلتے ہیں۔
10. Surah Ghafir (40:60)
Arabic:
إِنَّ الَّذِينَ يَسْتَكْبِرُونَ عَنْ عِبَادَتِي سَيَدْخُلُونَ جَهَنَّمَ
English:
“Those who are too proud to worship Me will enter Hell humiliated.”
Urdu:
جو میری عبادت سے غرور کرتے ہیں وہ ذلیل ہو کر جہنم میں جائیں گے۔
🌹 99 Names of Allah (Asma-ul-Husna)
Allah has 99 Beautiful Names. Each Name shows His mercy, power, and perfection. Some Names that are very helpful against ego are:
- Al-Haleem (The Forbearing) → helps you stay patient
- Al-Afuww (The Pardoner) → helps you forgive
- Al-Wadud (The Loving) → fills your heart with love
- Al-Mu’min (The Giver of Security) → gives you peace
- Al-Mutakabbir (The Supreme Great) → reminds you that only Allah has true greatness
When we repeat these Names, our heart becomes soft and our ego becomes weak.
🧠 How This Affects the Body (Easy Science)
When you recite the Qur’an and remember Allah:
- Your breathing slows down.
- Your body relaxes.
- Stress hormone (cortisol) goes down.
- Calm and happy chemicals (serotonin, dopamine, oxytocin) increase.
This is why after prayer or dhikr you feel lighter, calmer, and more humble. Ego gets smaller because the heart feels peace.
🌼 Simple Steps to Defeat Ego
- Recite one verse daily about pride and think: “Is this verse talking about me?”
- Repeat one Name of Allah 33 times after prayer (example: Ya Haleem, Ya Afoow).
- Serve others quietly — help someone without showing off.
- Reflect every night — ask yourself, “Did I act with pride today?” Then ask Allah to forgive.
- Stay connected — pray in jama‘ah, listen to Qur’an recitation, sit with humble people.
🌟 Short Dua (Easy Words)
“O Allah, remove pride from my heart. Make me humble, make me loving, and make me a servant of Your mercy.”
Conclusion
Ego destroyed Iblis. Ego can destroy us. But the Qur’an and the Beautiful Names of Allah give us a cure. When we recite, remember, and serve others with humility, our heart becomes clean. And only then can we be true Ashraf-ul-Makhluqat — the best of creation.
🌿 Sajda: The Prayer That Crushes Ego
Introduction
Every day we fight a silent enemy: ego. Ego makes us think, “I am better, I know more, I am greater.” But Allah gave us a very powerful cure — sajda (prostration in prayer).
Sajda is when we place our forehead on the ground before Allah. It is the lowest physical position a human can take. At that moment, we admit:
- “I am nothing without Allah.”
- “All greatness belongs only to Him.”
This simple act is a big sign of ending ego.
🌸 Why Sajda Ends Ego (Spiritual View)
- When your forehead touches the floor, you give up pride.
- You show that no matter how rich, strong, or smart you are — you still bow down to Allah.
- Angels prostrated to Adam, but Iblis refused because of ego. Sajda is our way of saying: “I will not be like Iblis. I will obey.”
So, sajda is not just movement. It is a message: ego has no place in front of Allah.
🧠 Science Behind Sajda (Easy Explanation)
Modern science also shows benefits of sajda:
- Blood Flow to the Brain
- When you put your head down, fresh blood flows to the brain.
- This increases oxygen supply, which makes the brain more active and calm.
- Relaxing the Nervous System
- The position of sajda is similar to a “relaxation pose” in medical science.
- It activates the parasympathetic system (the “rest and calm” system of the body).
- Result: your heart rate slows down, your stress level drops.
- Hormone Balance
- Stress hormones like cortisol go down during prayer.
- Happy chemicals like endorphins and serotonin increase.
- That’s why after sajda you feel light, peaceful, and less angry.
- Humility Training for the Brain
- The brain works with habits.
- By bowing down daily, your brain learns that pride is not natural.
- The body teaches the mind: “I am small, Allah is great.”
- Mental Health
- Research shows regular prayer reduces anxiety and depression.
- Sajda especially gives a feeling of safety and surrender.
- This destroys the false feeling of control that ego creates.
🌼 Sajda in Daily Life
- In Salah: Do sajda with focus. Don’t rush. Feel your forehead on the ground. Say: Subhana Rabbi al-A‘la (Glory be to my Lord, the Most High).
- In Dua: You can do sajda outside salah when making a special prayer. This is called Sajda Shukr (prostration of thanks).
- In Difficulty: When ego rises — for example, in an argument or after success — make sajda. Remind your heart: “Only Allah is great.”
🌟 Sajda and Ego: The Big Lesson
- Iblis refused sajda → he became cursed forever.
- We do sajda → we become humble, forgiven, and lifted higher.
- Ego says “I am the greatest.”
- Sajda says “Allah is the Greatest.”
Conclusion
Sajda is more than a movement. It is medicine.
- Spiritually, it kills pride.
- Physically, it relaxes the brain and body.
- Emotionally, it gives peace and gratitude.
Every sajda is like washing away a little piece of ego. That’s why the closest moment between a servant and Allah is when the forehead is on the ground.
🌿 Prayer Protocol: How to Crush Ego Through Sajda
Introduction
Salah is not just exercise. It is a spiritual training to fight ego every single day. The heart of salah is sajda (prostration) — when your forehead touches the ground. That moment is the strongest weapon against pride.
Here’s a simple protocol (routine) to pray with the goal of killing ego.
1. 🌸 Before Prayer: Prepare the Heart
- Make wudu slowly. Feel the water washing not only your body but also your pride.
- Whisper to yourself: “O Allah, remove pride from me.”
- Remember: you are about to stand in front of the King of kings.
2. 🌙 Starting Salah: Enter With Humility
- When you say Allahu Akbar, imagine leaving your ego behind.
- Think: “Allah is the Greatest, not me.”
- Don’t rush. Say it with heart.
3. 📖 During Recitation
- When you recite Surah Fatiha or another surah, focus on meanings.
- For example, in “Iyyaka na‘budu wa iyyaka nasta‘een” (You alone we worship, You alone we ask for help), remind yourself: “I cannot do anything without Allah.”
4. 🙇 Ruku (Bowing)
- In ruku, you bend your back. This is already lowering your pride.
- Say Subhana Rabbiyal Adheem (Glory be to my Lord, the Most Great).
- Think: “My Lord is Great, I am small.”
5. 🌿 Sajda (Prostration) — The Key Step
This is the main stage where ego is broken.
- Place your forehead, nose, palms, knees, and toes on the ground.
- Say Subhana Rabbiyal A‘la (Glory be to my Lord, the Most High).
- Imagine pouring your ego into the ground.
- Feel that your brain (the place of knowledge and pride) is touching the dust.
- Stay a little longer. Breathe slowly. Let your body relax fully.
💡 Tip: The Prophet ﷺ said the closest a servant is to Allah is when in sajda. Use this moment to make a private dua:
“O Allah, remove pride from me. Make me humble like Your true servants.”
6. 🌸 Between Sajdas
- Sit gently. Say Rabbighfir li (My Lord, forgive me).
- Imagine Allah forgiving every time you lower your head.
- Ego gets smaller, mercy gets bigger.
7. 🌙 End of Salah
- After the final salam, sit for one more minute.
- Close your eyes. Put your hand on your heart. Say softly:
“O Allah, all greatness is Yours. I am only Your servant.” - Feel peace spread inside you.
8. 🌼 Daily Reflection
After salah, ask yourself:
- Did I argue with pride today?
- Did I show off?
- Did I hurt someone with arrogance?
If yes, plan one humble action for the day — like helping quietly, forgiving someone, or saying sorry.
🌟 Why This Works (Easy Science)
- Sajda lowers stress hormones → makes you calm.
- Slow breathing in prayer → balances your nervous system.
- Lowering the body → trains the mind in humility.
- Regular practice → builds a habit of surrender and kills ego over time.
Final Words
Every sajda is like pressing the “delete” button on ego. The more you bow down, the lighter your heart becomes. Remember: Iblis refused sajda because of pride. We do sajda because we want Allah’s love.
So, next time your forehead touches the ground, feel your ego melting into the dust. That is the secret of salah.
🌿 Ending Ego With Sunnah: Teachings, Duas & Diet
Introduction
Ego is the biggest enemy of the heart. It makes a person arrogant, proud, and far from Allah. Prophet Muhammad ﷺ came to teach us how to live with humility. His teachings are not only about prayer but also about daily life — even what we eat can help fight ego.
🌸 Teachings of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ to End Ego
- Stay Humble in Behavior
- The Prophet ﷺ said:
“No one who has even a mustard seed of pride in his heart will enter Paradise.” - He lived simply, sat on the ground, ate with the poor, and never behaved proudly.
- The Prophet ﷺ said:
- Serve Others
- He mended his own clothes, milked his own goat, and helped his family at home.
- This teaches us: service kills ego.
- Remember Death
- The Prophet ﷺ said: “Remember often the destroyer of pleasures (death).”
- Thinking of death keeps the heart soft and stops pride.
- Forgive People
- Even when insulted, he forgave. Forgiveness is a sword against ego.
🌙 Duas to Kill Ego
Here are simple duas (prayers) from Hadith and Qur’an that you can use:
- For Humility اللّهُمَّ اجعلني صغيرًا في نفسي عظيمًا عندك
Allahumma aj‘alni sagheeran fee nafsi, ‘azheeman ‘indaka- “O Allah, make me small in my own eyes, and great in Yours.”
- For Purity of Heart اللَّهُمَّ طَهِّرْ قَلْبِي مِنَ النِّفَاقِ وَعَمَلِي مِنَ الرِّيَاءِ
- “O Allah, purify my heart from hypocrisy and my deeds from showing off.”
- For Guidance (from Qur’an, Surah Al-Fatiha)
- Ihdinas-Siratal-Mustaqeem
- “Guide us to the straight path.”
🍃 Prophetic Diet to End Ego
The Prophet ﷺ ate simple food. Simplicity in eating makes the heart humble. Overeating, fancy food, and luxury meals increase ego.
Foods he loved (Sunnah Foods):
- Dates 🍯 → Natural energy, keeps mood stable.
- Barley bread 🍞 → Simple, full of fiber.
- Milk 🥛 → Gives calmness and balance.
- Honey 🍯 → He called it healing.
- Olives & Olive oil 🌿 → “Eat the olive and apply its oil.”
- Water 💧 → Drank slowly, in three sips, with gratitude.
- Fruits 🍇 (grapes, pomegranate, cucumber, melon).
- Meat in Moderation 🥩 → He ate meat but not daily.
💡 Sunnah Principle: Eat less, be grateful, and stop before full.
🧠 Science Behind Prophetic Diet
- Dates & Honey → Give natural sugar → stable mood → less irritability and pride.
- Barley & Whole grains → High in fiber → prevent overeating → ego weakens when body isn’t overfed.
- Milk & Olives → Healthy fats and proteins → balance brain chemicals like serotonin and dopamine → makes mind calm.
- Less Meat → Too much meat can increase aggression; moderation keeps humility.
- Eating Less → Modern science shows fasting and light eating improve brain clarity and lower arrogance.
So, Prophet’s diet is not only spiritual, it’s scientifically anti-ego.
🥗 7-Day Sunnah Diet Plan to End Ego
Here’s a simple plan you can follow (with dua and mindfulness).
🌙 Day 1
- Morning: Dates with water
- Lunch: Barley bread + olive oil
- Dinner: Light soup with lentils
- Dua: “O Allah, keep my heart humble like Your servants.”
🌙 Day 2
- Morning: Milk + honey
- Lunch: Grilled vegetables + barley bread
- Dinner: A little fish with salad
- Reflection: “I eat simple, because greatness belongs to Allah.”
🌙 Day 3
- Morning: Dates + warm water
- Lunch: Barley porridge with olive oil
- Dinner: Meat in small portion with bread
- Reflection: “Meat is blessing, but I will not overeat.”
🌙 Day 4
- Morning: Honey water
- Lunch: Fruits (grapes, melon, pomegranate)
- Dinner: Vegetable stew + barley bread
- Dua: “Ya Allah, purify my heart from pride.”
🌙 Day 5
- Morning: Milk + dates
- Lunch: Lentil soup + olive oil
- Dinner: A little chicken with vegetables
- Reflection: “The Prophet ﷺ lived simple. I want to follow.”
🌙 Day 6
- Morning: Dates + honey water
- Lunch: Barley bread + salad
- Dinner: Light soup, no meat
- Dua: “O Allah, make me grateful, not arrogant.”
🌙 Day 7
- Morning: Fresh fruit + milk
- Lunch: Barley porridge with honey
- Dinner: Small portion of meat + bread + olive oil
- Reflection: “Food is for health, not pride.”
🌟 Final Lesson
Ego grows when we:
- Eat too much
- Show off with food
- Forget Allah in blessings
Ego dies when we:
- Eat simple
- Stay grateful
- Remember Allah
Prophet Muhammad ﷺ showed us that true greatness is not in having fancy food, but in living with a pure heart.
Every bite of Sunnah food, taken with gratitude, is like medicine for the soul. It keeps the heart soft, the body light, and the ego silent.
🌿 Ego in Different Religions: A Journey Toward Humility
Introduction
Ego is a universal problem. It makes people proud, selfish, and blind to truth. Every religion, not just Islam, warns us about ego and teaches humility. When we look at the wisdom from the Qur’an, Bible, Torah, Bhagavad Gita, Buddhist teachings, Tao Te Ching, and other holy books, we see the same message: ego destroys, humility saves.
Let’s explore.
🌙 Islam
- Main Teaching: Ego (kibr) is a disease of the heart. Iblis (Satan) refused to bow because of ego.
- Solution: Sajda (prostration), remembering Allah, and following the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ.
- Focus: Surrender to Allah, eat simple, live humble.
✝️ Christianity (Bible)
- The Bible teaches that pride is a sin.
- Verse: “God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” (James 4:6)
- Jesus taught his followers to wash each other’s feet — a symbol of service and humility.
- Lesson: Ego separates you from God, but humility brings you closer.
✡️ Judaism (Torah & Talmud)
- The Torah teaches that humans are dust, and only God is truly great.
- Verse: “What does the Lord require of you? To act justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.” (Micah 6:8)
- Jewish rabbis say arrogance is like idolatry because it makes the self into a false god.
- Lesson: True wisdom is walking humbly with God.
🕉️ Hinduism (Bhagavad Gita & Upanishads)
- Ego is called ahamkara — the false sense of “I” and “mine.”
- The Gita teaches: “Be free from ego, arrogance, and selfish desire.” (Bhagavad Gita 13:8)
- Krishna tells Arjuna that victory comes when he surrenders his ego to God.
- Lesson: Detach from ego, attach to the Divine.
☸️ Buddhism
- The Buddha taught that ego is an illusion. Clinging to “I, me, mine” causes suffering.
- The practice of meditation, mindfulness, and compassion reduces ego.
- Teaching: “Conquer your own self, and not others.”
- Lesson: When ego drops, peace rises.
🌀 Taoism (Tao Te Ching)
- Lao Tzu, the Taoist master, said: “The higher the ego, the lower the soul. The lower the ego, the closer to the Tao.”
- Taoism teaches wu wei (living simply and naturally, without pride).
- Lesson: Ego blocks the flow of life, humility opens it.
🕊️ Sikhism (Guru Granth Sahib)
- Sikhs call ego haumai (the disease of “I”).
- The Guru Granth Sahib says: “Ego is a chronic disease, but it contains its own cure. When God’s name enters the mind, ego disappears.”
- Lesson: Remembering God’s name (Simran) kills ego.
🌍 Common Wisdom Across Religions
If we put all these teachings together, we see:
- Ego is the root of sin and suffering.
- Humility, service, and surrender are the cures.
- All religions warn: pride leads to downfall, humility leads to peace.
🧠 Science & Ego (Modern View)
Even science agrees:
- Ego creates stress, anger, and loneliness.
- Practices like prayer, meditation, fasting, and gratitude lower ego by calming the brain and balancing hormones.
- Simple living and serving others improve mental health.
🌟 Final Lesson
- Islam: Sajda kills ego.
- Christianity: Humility brings grace.
- Judaism: Walk humbly with God.
- Hinduism: Surrender the “I.”
- Buddhism: Ego is an illusion.
- Taoism: Ego blocks harmony.
- Sikhism: Remember God’s name to cure ego.
✨ One truth: Ego destroys everything, humility builds everything.
🌿 Diet and Ego: How Food Can Calm the Heart
Introduction
Ego is not only about the mind. It is also connected with the body. When we overeat, when we eat too much heavy or luxury food, our ego becomes stronger. But when we eat simple, clean, balanced food, our heart becomes soft and humble. Many world-famous nutrition doctors say the same thing: food changes mood.
🌸 Doctors Who Teach About Food and Humility
- Dr. Joel Fuhrman (USA): teaches “nutritarian diet” — eat foods with the most nutrients, not empty calories.
- Dr. Tim Spector (UK): studies how gut health affects the brain. A healthy gut makes a calm mind.
- Nutritional psychiatry doctors (many countries): show that diet can reduce stress, depression, and anger.
They all agree: when the body is calm, the mind is humble.
🧠 Science Behind Diet and Ego
- Stable Blood Sugar
- Simple foods like oats, lentils, fruits keep blood sugar steady.
- Steady sugar = steady mood = less anger and ego.
- Good Fats and Omega-3
- Found in fish, nuts, seeds, olive oil.
- These make the brain healthy and calm. A calm brain fights ego.
- Antioxidants
- Fruits and vegetables protect brain cells.
- They reduce stress chemicals in the body.
- Gut Health
- Healthy bacteria in the stomach make chemicals that bring happiness.
- A happy, calm person has less pride.
- Eating Less
- Overeating makes the body heavy and the mind restless.
- Eating less keeps the heart soft and humble.
🌼 7-Day Humility Diet Plan
This plan is simple, light, and full of foods that support calmness.
🌙 Day 1
- Breakfast: Oats with walnuts and honey
- Lunch: Salad with greens, cucumber, tomato + olive oil
- Dinner: Lentil soup with brown bread
🌙 Day 2
- Breakfast: Milk with dates
- Lunch: Brown rice with vegetables
- Dinner: Light soup + small piece of fish or beans
🌙 Day 3
- Breakfast: Fruit smoothie with banana and spinach
- Lunch: Whole grain bread + lentil curry
- Dinner: Steamed vegetables + little chicken or beans
🌙 Day 4
- Breakfast: Whole grain toast with avocado
- Lunch: Quinoa or millet with roasted vegetables
- Dinner: Light vegetable soup
🌙 Day 5
- Breakfast: Yogurt with fruits and flaxseed
- Lunch: Vegetable wrap with chickpeas
- Dinner: Small piece of meat with salad
🌙 Day 6
- Breakfast: Porridge with nuts and honey
- Lunch: Salad bowl with legumes and seeds
- Dinner: Vegetable curry with brown rice
🌙 Day 7
- Breakfast: Fruit salad with plain yogurt
- Lunch: Whole grain pasta with vegetables
- Dinner: Vegetable broth + leafy greens
🌟 Daily Eating Habits for Humility
- Start every meal with a prayer of gratitude.
- Eat slowly, chew properly.
- Stop eating before full.
- Drink water in small sips.
- Keep meals simple — no need for fancy show.
🌸 Final Lesson
Ego grows when we:
- Overeat
- Choose food for show, not for health
- Forget to thank God for blessings
Ego becomes weak when we:
- Eat simple and natural food
- Stay grateful
- Remember that food is a gift, not a status symbol
✨ Eating with humility is not only good for health — it is medicine for the soul.
🌿 How Famous Psychologists Teach Us to End Ego
Introduction
Ego is that little voice inside that says: “I am better, I know more, I must win.” It can protect us sometimes, but if it grows too big, it destroys peace, relationships, and even spiritual growth. Many world-famous psychologists studied the ego. They explained what it is and how to reduce it.
🌸 Sigmund Freud (Austria) – The Father of Psychology
- Freud divided the mind into Id, Ego, and Superego.
- Ego was like the middle manager between desires (Id) and morals (Superego).
- Problem: If ego becomes too strong → pride, selfishness, arrogance.
- Cure: Balance. The ego should serve reality, not dominate it.
💡 Lesson: Don’t let ego control your life; keep it balanced with morals and humility.
🌸 Carl Jung (Switzerland) – The Deep Thinker
- Jung said the ego is only a small part of the self.
- Behind the ego is the “true self” — deeper, wiser, connected to God.
- If we only live in ego, we live a shallow life.
- Cure: Silence the ego with prayer, meditation, and self-reflection.
💡 Lesson: Ego is not the full you. Look deeper to find your real self.
🌸 Alfred Adler (Austria) – Psychology of Service
- Adler believed ego shows itself in “superiority complex” — the need to feel better than others.
- But real strength comes from helping others.
- Cure: Service, community work, kindness.
💡 Lesson: Ego dies when you serve people with love.
🌸 Abraham Maslow (USA) – Needs and Growth
- Maslow created the “pyramid of needs.”
- At the top is self-actualization — becoming your best self.
- But to reach that top, you must first overcome ego needs (like showing off, wanting power).
- Cure: Gratitude, creativity, purpose, love.
💡 Lesson: Ego wants fame. Soul wants meaning. Choose meaning.
🌸 Viktor Frankl (Austria) – Meaning of Life
- Survived Nazi camps, lost family, suffered greatly.
- Taught that life’s purpose is not ego or power — it is meaning.
- Even in suffering, you can choose a humble, meaningful response.
- Cure: Live for something bigger than yourself.
💡 Lesson: Ego looks at “me.” Humility looks at “why.”
🌸 Erich Fromm (Germany/USA) – Love vs. Ego
- Fromm said ego lives in “having” — always wanting more.
- Real joy comes from “being” — love, kindness, sharing.
- Cure: Practice love without expecting anything back.
💡 Lesson: Ego says, “Take more.” Humility says, “Give more.”
🌸 Modern Psychologists
- Eckhart Tolle (Germany/Canada): Wrote The Power of Now. He teaches: ego lives in the past and future. It dies when you live fully in the present moment.
- Daniel Goleman (USA): Talks about emotional intelligence. People with less ego listen more, manage anger, and build better relationships.
- Jon Kabat-Zinn (USA): Teaches mindfulness. Watching your thoughts calmly reduces ego’s power.
🧠 Science of Ego (Easy View)
- Ego is linked to the brain’s reward system (dopamine). When you win or show off, dopamine spikes.
- Too much of this cycle → addiction to pride.
- Practices like gratitude, prayer, meditation, and serving others release serotonin and oxytocin — “humility chemicals.”
- These make you feel happy and connected, without feeding ego.
🌼 Final Wisdom From Psychology
- Freud: Balance your ego.
- Jung: Ego is small; find your true self.
- Adler: Kill ego through service.
- Maslow: Go beyond ego needs, seek meaning.
- Frankl: Live for purpose, not pride.
- Fromm: Replace ego with love.
- Tolle & others: Ego dies in the present moment.
🌟 Conclusion
Every great psychologist agreed on one truth: ego blocks growth.
- Ego says: “I am everything.”
- Humility says: “I am nothing without God and others.”
When you eat simple, pray, meditate, love, and serve, the ego shrinks. What grows instead is peace, wisdom, and true joy.
🌿 Natural Healing for Ego: Herbs, Homeopathy, and Salts
🌸 Introduction
Ego grows stronger when the mind is restless, angry, or full of stress. But when the body is peaceful and the brain is calm, the heart feels light and humble. Along with prayer and spiritual work, some natural remedies can help balance the mood. Herbs, homeopathy, and safe salts don’t directly “kill ego” — but they calm the nervous system, reduce stress, and bring inner balance. That makes ego weak.
🌿 Natural Herbs for Calming Ego
1. Ashwagandha
- Known as an ancient herb for stress relief.
- Balances cortisol (stress hormone).
- Helps with anxiety, overthinking, and mood swings.
💡 Effect on Ego: When stress is low, ego has less fuel.
2. Chamomile
- Gentle flower herb used as tea.
- Helps with relaxation, better sleep, less irritation.
💡 Effect on Ego: A calm mind doesn’t fight, argue, or show pride easily.
3. Tulsi (Holy Basil)
- Sacred herb in many traditions.
- Boosts immunity and balances mood.
- Reduces nervous tension.
💡 Effect on Ego: Brings softness to thoughts, making humility easier.
4. Lemon Balm
- Known for uplifting mood.
- Good for mild anxiety and emotional balance.
💡 Effect on Ego: Keeps the heart light, reduces anger and arrogance.
5. Saffron
- A golden spice, often used for joy and warmth.
- Scientific studies show it helps in depression.
💡 Effect on Ego: Lifts the spirit, making gratitude easier than pride.
🧪 Homeopathy Medicines for Ego-Related Issues
(Homeopathy works on the principle of “like cures like.” It focuses on emotional states as well as physical ones.)
1. Nux Vomica
- For people who are quick-tempered, impatient, bossy.
- Calms irritation and reduces mental tension.
2. Lycopodium
- For those who act proud on the outside but feel insecure inside.
- Builds true confidence, not fake ego.
3. Aur. Metallicum (Gold Salt)
- For people with heavy sadness, pride, or feeling burdened by responsibility.
- Helps bring balance and inner peace.
4. Staphysagria
- For those who suppress anger and then explode later.
- Teaches calm response instead of ego reaction.
5. Ignatia
- For emotional imbalance, grief, or mood swings.
- Brings softness and patience to the heart.
💡 Effect on Ego: These remedies reduce the emotional “fire” that often fuels ego — like anger, insecurity, or restlessness.
🧂 Safe Medicine Salts (Biochemic / Tissue Salts)
Tissue salts are gentle minerals in tiny doses, used to balance the body.
1. Kali Phos (Potassium Phosphate)
- Great for nervous system and brain.
- Helps with stress, anxiety, restlessness.
💡 Effect on Ego: Brings calm thinking, reduces harsh reactions.
2. Natrum Mur (Sodium Chloride)
- For people who bottle up emotions or feel isolated.
- Helps release sadness.
💡 Effect on Ego: Makes the heart softer, less rigid.
3. Calc Phos (Calcium Phosphate)
- Builds strength in body and mind.
- Helps with fatigue and low energy.
💡 Effect on Ego: When energy is balanced, ego has less room to control.
4. Mag Phos (Magnesium Phosphate)
- Good for muscle tension, stress, and cramps.
- Relaxes body and mind.
💡 Effect on Ego: Relaxation reduces arrogance and anger.
🧠 Science Behind It
- Herbs: Many herbs reduce cortisol (stress hormone) and increase serotonin (happy chemical). This helps balance mood and reduces the “fight and win” attitude of ego.
- Homeopathy: Works on emotional patterns, teaching the mind to react more gently instead of with pride or anger.
- Tissue Salts: These restore mineral balance, supporting the nervous system. A stable nervous system = calm reactions.
🌼 Daily Practice with Natural Remedies
- Morning: Start with warm water + a little tulsi tea.
- Daytime: If stressed, sip chamomile or lemon balm tea.
- Evening: Take tissue salts like Kali Phos to relax mind.
- Night: A few strands of saffron in milk can bring joy and peace.
Combine this with prayer, gratitude, and humility exercises → ego becomes weaker every day.
🌟 Conclusion
Ego is like fire. Herbs, homeopathy, and salts are like water — they cool the system down. But the biggest medicine is still prayer, service, and gratitude. When body and mind are calm, the soul shines — and ego quietly disappears.
🌿 7-Day Natural Healing Plan to Calm Ego
💡 Note: This plan is gentle. It is not a replacement for medical advice. It supports mind + body balance, which makes the ego softer.
🌙 Day 1 – Start with Calmness
- Morning: Warm water with 2–3 tulsi (holy basil) leaves.
- Afternoon: Take Kali Phos (tissue salt) for nervous calm.
- Evening: Chamomile tea before dinner.
- Night: Read a short dua of gratitude before sleep.
✨ Focus word: Calm. Ego becomes weak in calmness.
🌙 Day 2 – Release Stress
- Morning: Ashwagandha powder (½ teaspoon) with warm milk.
- Afternoon: Homeopathy remedy Nux Vomica (for irritation, quick anger).
- Evening: Lemon balm tea.
- Night: Saffron in warm milk.
✨ Focus word: Patience. Ego cannot live with patience.
🌙 Day 3 – Build Humility
- Morning: Warm water + a slice of lemon (fresh start).
- Afternoon: Lycopodium (homeopathy) for false pride.
- Evening: Tulsi tea.
- Night: Read a short prayer for forgiveness + take Natrum Mur salt for emotional balance.
✨ Focus word: Humility. Ego shrinks when we admit weakness.
🌙 Day 4 – Relax the Body
- Morning: Chia seeds soaked overnight in water.
- Afternoon: Mag Phos salt (good for muscle + mental relaxation).
- Evening: Chamomile tea.
- Night: Deep breathing + saffron milk.
✨ Focus word: Relax. Ego grows in tension, dies in relaxation.
🌙 Day 5 – Open the Heart
- Morning: A few fresh mint leaves in water.
- Afternoon: Ignatia (homeopathy) for emotional peace.
- Evening: Lemon balm tea with honey.
- Night: Gratitude journaling (write 3 blessings of the day).
✨ Focus word: Gratitude. Ego cannot stay where gratitude lives.
🌙 Day 6 – Energy Balance
- Morning: Ashwagandha or ginseng tea.
- Afternoon: Calc Phos salt for energy.
- Evening: Tulsi + ginger tea.
- Night: Quiet reflection for 10 minutes, then saffron milk.
✨ Focus word: Balance. Ego rises in imbalance.
🌙 Day 7 – Spiritual Healing
- Morning: Start with dua + tulsi water.
- Afternoon: Aur. Metallicum (homeopathy gold salt) for deep inner calm.
- Evening: Chamomile tea with a small date.
- Night: Read short verses of Quran or prayer + take Kali Phos salt.
✨ Focus word: Surrender. Ego dies when we surrender to Allah.
🌸 Extra Daily Habits for All 7 Days
- Sit in sajda (prostration) for a few seconds after prayer — this is the biggest ego breaker.
- Eat simple food (avoid overeating).
- Sleep on time and wake early — ego is stronger when you are tired.
- Spend at least 5 minutes in silence — let thoughts come and go.
🌟 Conclusion
This 7-day plan works on body + mind + soul:
- Herbs calm stress and bring natural peace.
- Homeopathy balances emotional patterns.
- Salts nourish the nervous system.
- Prayers and gratitude directly heal the heart.
When the system is calm, ego loses its power. What shines instead is humility, peace, and light of Allah.
📚 Books That Teach How to End Ego
🌿 Motivational / Self-Help Books
1. Ego is the Enemy – by Ryan Holiday
- Very popular modern book.
- Teaches that ego stops learning, growth, and peace.
- Uses stories of leaders, artists, and athletes who controlled their ego to succeed.
💡 Lesson: Ego blocks, humility unlocks.
2. The Power of Now – by Eckhart Tolle
- Says ego lives in past and future.
- Ego always says, “I was great” or “I will be great.”
- But peace is in the present moment.
💡 Lesson: When you live in the “now,” ego becomes silent.
3. Man’s Search for Meaning – by Viktor Frankl
- Author was a survivor of Nazi camps.
- He explains life is not about ego, but about finding meaning, even in suffering.
💡 Lesson: Ego looks for power; soul looks for purpose.
4. The Untethered Soul – by Michael A. Singer
- Explains how ego is like a noisy roommate in your head.
- If you just watch it, not follow it, ego becomes weak.
💡 Lesson: You are not the voice of ego; you are the awareness behind it.
🌸 Islamic Books
1. Ihya Ulum al-Din (Revival of the Religious Sciences) – by Imam Al-Ghazali
- Classic book of Islamic spirituality.
- Has full chapters about pride (kibr) and how to fight it.
- Teaches that ego hides in wealth, status, and knowledge.
💡 Lesson: Remember death, serve people, stay close to Allah to break ego.
2. Al-Adab al-Mufrad – by Imam Bukhari
- A collection of hadiths about manners.
- Shows Prophet Muhammad ﷺ’s humility.
- Simple acts: greeting people first, sitting on the ground, eating simple food.
💡 Lesson: Humility is not words, it is daily actions.
3. Purification of the Soul (Tazkiyah an-Nafs) – by various scholars
- Explains diseases of the heart: pride, arrogance, jealousy.
- Gives Quran and Hadith based cures.
💡 Lesson: Ego is a disease; remembrance of Allah is medicine.
4. In the Early Hours – by Khurram Murad
- Modern Islamic book on spiritual discipline.
- Talks about how ego makes the heart hard.
- Suggests night prayer, Quran reflection, and gratitude.
💡 Lesson: Wake up early, remember Allah, and ego will shrink.
5. Inner Dimensions of Islamic Worship – by Imam Al-Ghazali
- Short book explaining humility in prayer, fasting, charity, and Hajj.
- Shows how acts of worship kill ego if done sincerely.
💡 Lesson: Rituals are not for show — they are for crushing ego.
🧠 Science + Islam Connection
- Motivational books say: live in present, be humble, serve others.
- Islamic books say: remember Allah, serve people, live simple, pray.
- Both agree: ego is the barrier between you and peace.
- Science says gratitude, service, and meditation lower stress hormones.
- Islam says gratitude (shukr), service (khidmah), prayer (salah) give peace of heart.
🌟 Conclusion
Ego is like a shadow. The more we feed it, the bigger it looks. But when we bring light — knowledge, prayer, gratitude, service — the shadow disappears.
📚 Books, whether motivational or Islamic, guide us to the same truth:
- Ego is not strength.
- Humility is the real power.
🌿 Acupressure Points to Calm Ego and Find Humility
🌸 Introduction
Acupressure is an old natural healing method. It uses gentle pressure on certain points of the body to release energy, reduce stress, and balance emotions. Ego is not just in the mind — it is also in the body. When anger rises, when chest feels heavy, when head feels hot → that is ego energy. By pressing simple points, we can relax the body and ego becomes weak.
🌼 Main Acupressure Points for Ego Control
1. Third Eye Point (Between Eyebrows)
- Location: Right between your two eyebrows.
- How: Gently press with one finger for 1–2 minutes.
- Effect: Calms racing thoughts, reduces anger, helps with focus.
💡 Why for Ego: Ego lives in overthinking. This point brings silence.
2. Heart Point (Center of Chest)
- Location: Middle of the chest, between the breasts.
- How: Place palm or fingers, press gently and breathe deeply for 1–2 minutes.
- Effect: Opens the heart, releases emotional tension.
💡 Why for Ego: Ego makes the heart hard. This point makes it soft.
3. Liver Point (Below Rib on Right Side)
- Location: Under the right rib cage.
- How: Massage gently in circular motion for 2 minutes.
- Effect: Helps release stored anger and frustration.
💡 Why for Ego: Ego often hides in anger. This point cools anger.
4. Solar Plexus Point (Upper Stomach)
- Location: Between chest and navel.
- How: Press gently with fingers or palm while breathing slowly.
- Effect: Reduces stress, relaxes body, clears emotional heaviness.
💡 Why for Ego: Ego creates tightness in this area. This point releases it.
5. Hand Point (Between Thumb and Index Finger)
- Location: Soft area between thumb and index finger.
- How: Pinch gently for 1–2 minutes on each hand.
- Effect: Relieves headaches, calms nerves.
💡 Why for Ego: Ego heats up the head. This point cools it down.
6. Feet Point (Sole of Foot, Ball Area)
- Location: Center of the sole, below the ball of the foot.
- How: Press with thumb for 1–2 minutes, both feet.
- Effect: Grounds energy, removes arrogance.
💡 Why for Ego: Ego makes us “walk with pride.” This point teaches grounding.
7. Ear Point (Upper Curve of Ear)
- Location: Outer rim of ear, top area.
- How: Massage gently with fingers.
- Effect: Balances emotions, brings peace.
💡 Why for Ego: Ego causes emotional storms. This point makes waves calm.
🧠 Science Behind Acupressure and Ego
- Nervous System: Pressing these points activates the parasympathetic system → lowers stress hormones, calms body.
- Hormones: Reduces cortisol (stress), balances serotonin (happy chemical).
- Mind-Body Link: When body is relaxed, the brain is less defensive, less proud.
- Energy Flow: Acupressure balances blocked energy. Ego is like blocked energy — when it flows, humility appears.
🌸 Daily Practice Routine (5–10 Minutes)
- Sit in a quiet place.
- Close your eyes, breathe slowly.
- Press each point (from above list) for 1–2 minutes.
- While pressing, repeat in your heart:
“Ya Allah, remove pride from me, give me humility.” - End by placing both palms on the heart for 1 minute.
🌟 Conclusion
Ego is not only a mental problem. It also lives in the body — in the chest, stomach, head, and even in our steps. Acupressure helps to release that heavy energy. When the body relaxes, the mind softens. And when the mind softens, the ego has no place to stay.
✨ With prayer, gratitude, simple food, and acupressure — the soul shines brighter than the ego.
🌍 7 Days NLP & Ego-Killing Meditation Program for All Humanity
👉 Goal: To re-train the mind, weaken ego, and grow compassion, love, and unity.
👉 Tools: NLP exercises (changing inner language & thinking patterns), meditations, affirmations.
👉 Style: Easy English, anyone can follow.
🌸 Day 1 – See the Ego Clearly
- NLP Exercise:
- Write down 3 recent times you felt angry, jealous, or proud.
- Ask: “Was this my true self or just my ego?”
- Reframe: Instead of “I am right” → say “I am ready to learn.”
- Meditation (10 min): Sit quietly. With each breath, say in your mind: “I see my ego, but I am not my ego.”
- Affirmation: “I choose humility over pride.”
🌸 Day 2 – Change Inner Voice
- NLP Exercise:
- Notice your self-talk today.
- If you hear your mind say: “I am better than them” → replace with “We are equal.”
- If it says: “I must win” → replace with “We can grow together.”
- Meditation (10 min): Close eyes, imagine your ego as a balloon. With every exhale, see it getting smaller.
- Affirmation: “I am connected with everyone.”
🌸 Day 3 – End Comparison
- NLP Exercise:
- Write 2 people you often compare yourself with.
- Ask: “What can I learn from them instead of compete with them?”
- Reframe comparison into curiosity.
- Meditation (12 min): Sit, place hand on heart. Inhale: “I accept myself.” Exhale: “I accept others.”
- Affirmation: “I grow when others grow too.”
🌸 Day 4 – Anchor Humility
- NLP Exercise:
- Create a “humility anchor.” Touch your heart with your right hand and say: “I am humble, I am one with humanity.”
- Use this whenever you feel ego rising.
- Meditation (12 min): Imagine bowing down to the whole world. Feel small like a drop, but also part of a vast ocean.
- Affirmation: “I bow to the light in everyone.”
🌸 Day 5 – Rewrite Ego Stories
- NLP Exercise:
- Write one old ego story (example: “I must always win.”).
- Rewrite into a new story (example: “Life is not a race, life is a journey together.”).
- Read it 3 times daily.
- Meditation (15 min): Picture your ego as black smoke. With each exhale, release it into the sky until it disappears.
- Affirmation: “My story is love, not ego.”
🌸 Day 6 – Practice Forgiveness
- NLP Exercise:
- Think of someone your ego dislikes.
- Close your eyes and say: “I forgive you, I free you, I free myself.”
- Visualize shaking hands or hugging them in peace.
- Meditation (15 min): Focus on your heart. Imagine golden light filling you, then spreading to the whole earth.
- Affirmation: “I choose love over hate.”
🌸 Day 7 – Union with Humanity
- NLP Exercise:
- Stand before a mirror. Look into your own eyes.
- Say 5 times: “I am not above anyone. I am not below anyone. I am one with everyone.”
- Meditation (20 min): Imagine all people of the world sitting in a circle, holding hands with you. Feel unity, peace, and oneness.
- Affirmation: “When ego ends, humanity begins.”
🌟 After 7 Days
- You will notice more peace inside.
- Less anger, less pride, less comparison.
- More love, more compassion, more unity with others.
- Keep repeating this cycle until humility becomes your natural state.
🌟 7-Day Advanced Silva Meditation Program to Soften the Ego
Before you start — simple prep
- Find a quiet place. Sit or lie comfortably.
- Have a small notebook and pen.
- Wear loose clothes.
- Aim for 30–40 minutes per full session (advanced). If you’re busy, use the short morning/night versions after each day.
- Safety note: if strong emotions or old trauma appear, stop, breathe, and talk to a trusted friend or a professional.
Short reminder of Silva basics (in one line)
Silva techniques help you relax into a calm brain state (called alpha), use a mental screen (like an inner TV), and program the mind for new feelings and habits. We will use that to soften pride, comparison, and fear — the parts of ego.
Day 1 — Deep Alpha Induction + Watcher Practice
Goal: Learn a strong alpha entry and begin watching the ego without judging.
Time: 30 minutes
Step-by-step
- Relax body (5 min).
- Sit or lie. Close eyes. Take 3 slow deep breaths.
- Mentally scan from head to toes. Tell each part: “Relax.”
- 3–2–1 Alpha Countdown (3 min).
- Breathe in, breathe out. Count slowly: “3… go deeper… 2… more calm… 1… deeply relaxed.”
- Feel heavier and calm.
- Staircase visualization (5 min).
- Imagine a 10-step staircase going down. With every count go one step down. See color, feel texture. At step 10 you are calm and inside alpha.
- Watcher exercise (10 min).
- Create an inner screen in front of you (like a TV). On it, let appear a recent scene where ego showed up (pride, anger, jealousy). Watch it like a calm movie.
- Do NOT join. You are a watcher. Notice feelings without shame. Say softly: “I see this. I am not this.”
- Softening program (5 min).
- On your mental screen, now show the same scene softened: people smiling, you breathing, you choosing calm. Repeat calmly:
“I choose humility. I let go of pride.” - For 30 seconds press thumb + index + middle finger together (this becomes your humility anchor).
- On your mental screen, now show the same scene softened: people smiling, you breathing, you choosing calm. Repeat calmly:
- Count up (1 min).
- Say: “1…2…3. Eyes open, fully awake.” Stretch.
Night mini practice: 5 minutes — watch one ego moment and shrink the image until it’s small and grey.
Journal: Write one ego moment you watched and one small choice you will make tomorrow instead.
Day 2 — Mental Screen Submodalities (Change the Ego Picture)
Goal: Learn to change how the ego looks and feels inside your mind so it loses power.
Time: 35 minutes
Step-by-step
- Quick alpha entry: breathe and count 3–2–1 (2 min).
- Bring up an ego image on your mental screen (3 min). Notice: is it bright or dark? Big or small? Loud or quiet? (these are called submodalities).
- Change the ego image (10 min):
- Make it smaller. Push it to one corner. Turn the color to grey. Make it silent. Make it far away.
- Now create your humble self image. Make it bright, close, warm, and calm. Big and soft.
- Swap test (5 min):
- Swap sizes: ego image tiny, humble self big. Feel the change in your body. Breathe into calm.
- Anchor reinforcement (5 min):
- Press your three fingers and say: “Humility now.” Repeat 5 times.
- Count up and end.
Daily action: When you notice pride, close eyes for 15 seconds and shrink that pride image.
Journal: How did the ego look before and after? Any feeling change?
Day 3 — Mirror of the Mind & Self-Image Rewrite
Goal: Create a new inner image of yourself that is humble and kind.
Time: 40 minutes
Step-by-step
- Alpha entry (5 min).
- Mirror visualization (10 min):
- On your mental screen, place a mirror. See yourself as you are. Now, in that mirror, see your humble self — patient, kind, generous. Notice posture, eyes, smile.
- Rewrite script (10 min):
- Speak silently: “I am calm. I listen. I learn. I am part of everyone.” Repeat 10 times while looking in the inner mirror.
- Future projection (10 min):
- Move forward in time in the screen. See a specific moment — work, family, crowd — where you act with humility. See reactions of others. Feel the warmth. Save this as a “future memory.”
- Anchor + return.
Daily action: Act one small humble action today (e.g., let someone go first, say ‘thank you’ more).
Journal: Describe your new mirror image in 3 words.
Day 4 — Glass of Water + Intuitive Guidance (Softening the Need to Be Right)
Goal: Use intuition to find simple steps that reduce the ego need to win.
Time: 30 minutes + bedtime routine
Step-by-step
- Alpha entry (5 min).
- Clear question: in your mind ask, “What small step will help me let go of needing to be right?” Say it clearly.
- Visualize your mental screen showing 3 options. Pick the one that feels calm. Ask, “Does this help me?” Feel yes/no as calm or tense.
- Glass of water bedtime technique (Silva style, gentle version):
- Before sleep, hold a glass of water. In alpha, quietly ask: “Show me one clear step to soften my need to be right.” Drink a sip, then sleep. In the morning write any impressions or idea. (If nothing comes, that is fine — keep practicing.)
- Anchor.
Daily action: Try the chosen small step once today.
Journal: What idea came? Did you try it?
Day 5 — Emotional Release & Forgiveness Ritual
Goal: Let go of hurt and pride that keep ego strong.
Time: 40 minutes
Step-by-step
- Alpha entry (5 min).
- Empty chair visualization (15 min):
- On your mental screen, place an empty chair. In it, imagine the person or part of you you want to forgive (could be yourself). Speak to them calmly: say what you feel, then say, “I forgive you. I free you. I free myself.”
- Cleansing light (10 min):
- Visualize a warm white/golden light pouring into your heart. See it dissolve the hard armor of ego. Feel softness.
- Anchor + integrate (5 min).
- Press three fingers and whisper: “I forgive.” Breathe and return.
Daily action: Do an act of kindness for someone you felt little toward.
Journal: Who did you forgive (even in your mind)? How does it feel?
Day 6 — Rapid Alpha + Life Anchoring (Use in Real Time)
Goal: Build a quick access to calm humility you can use anytime.
Time: 30 minutes
Step-by-step
- Alpha entry (3 min).
- Rapid alpha drill (10 min):
- Learn to enter alpha in 30–45 seconds. Steps: slow breath, close eyes, picture a blue dot at forehead, count 3-2-1, feel weight drop. Practice 5 times.
- Trigger anchor (10 min):
- Choose a short phrase: “Soft now.” Press three fingers, say it, and feel the calm. Repeat 15 times until the trigger is strong.
- Real-life rehearsal (5 min):
- Imagine three real situations (meeting, argument, long queue). Practice pressing anchor and saying phrase. See yourself respond with humility.
Daily action: Use your anchor once today in a real situation.
Journal: Where did you use it? What changed?
Day 7 — Future Memory & Integration Session (Long Practice)
Goal: Make humility a stable habit. Lock in the new self.
Time: 45 minutes
Step-by-step
- Full alpha entry (10 min). Use the staircase.
- Combine all tools (20 min):
- Bring the best images: your humble mirror image, the small ego picture, the future memory, the cleansing light. Put them together on the mental screen.
- Create one clear future memory: see a day in the future where you live with little ego. Watch it as if it already happened. Hear sounds, feel textures, smell, taste. Make it vivid.
- Program and anchor (10 min):
- Tell your mind: “From today on, I move with humility. I learn. I forgive. I serve.” Press three fingers and hold the feeling for 60 seconds.
- Count up and return.
Daily action: Do a “compassion challenge” — one generous act with no credit.
Journal: Write the future memory in detail. Read it every morning for 21 days.
Quick Scripts you can read or record (use soft voice)
Alpha induction (short)
“Sit comfortably. Take a deep breath in… and out. Now breathe slowly three times. 3… going calm… 2… deeper still… 1… deeply relaxed. Imagine a staircase of ten steps. With each number from ten to one, go one step down… Ten… Nine… deeper… One… very calm, very relaxed.”
Watcher + shrink (short)
“See the scene on your inner screen. Watch it like a movie. Now make that scene small and grey. Push it away. Bring forward your calm self — bright, warm, kind. Feel the calm grow in your chest.”
Future memory (short)
“See a moment in the near future where you act with humble love. Watch every detail. Hear the words. Feel the warmth. Know it already happened. Store it in your mind.”
Daily short routines (if you have only 5 minutes)
- Morning (2–3 min): Alpha breath + say the affirmation once while pressing three fingers.
- During day (1 min): Press anchor and take 3 deep breaths when ego arises.
- Night (2–3 min): Watch one ego moment and shrink it on your screen.
Affirmations / Mantras (repeat in alpha and during day)
- “I choose humility.”
- “I listen more than I speak.”
- “I learn from everyone.”
- “I am not my pride.”
- “When ego fades, love grows.”
(Use these with your three-finger anchor.)
How to measure progress
- You feel less need to be right.
- You apologize faster and more often.
- You notice people’s feelings more.
- Small, kind actions become natural.
Keep a simple score each day: 1 = ego ruled me, 5 = I chose humility.
Final notes — keep it gentle
- Don’t force or judge yourself. Ego breaks slowly.
- Practice daily for at least 21–40 days to make the change stick.
- If heavy emotions come, pause and seek help if needed.
🌿 7 Days Yoga, Diet, Meditation & Mantras to End Ego
🌸 Day 1 – Begin with Humility
- Yoga:
- Mountain Pose (Tadasana) – stand tall, breathe deeply.
- Child’s Pose (Balasana) – bow down, surrender.
- Easy Sitting (Sukhasana) – focus on stillness.
- Meditation: Sit quietly, close eyes, watch your breath for 5–10 minutes. Whenever thoughts come, gently say “I am not my thoughts.”
- Mantra:
- “Om Shanti Shanti Shanti” (Peace, peace, peace).
- Repeat slowly with love.
- Diet: Light and simple – fruits, vegetables, warm water. Avoid junk and heavy food.
🌸 Day 2 – Practice Gratitude
- Yoga:
- Sun Salutation (Surya Namaskar) – 3 to 5 rounds.
- Tree Pose (Vrikshasana) – balance and patience.
- Corpse Pose (Shavasana) – let go fully.
- Meditation: Think of 3 people or things you are grateful for. Feel thankful in your heart.
- Mantra:
- “Dhanyavadam” (Thank you, thank you).
- Whisper it with each breath.
- Diet: Eat fresh home-cooked food, add leafy greens. Drink plenty of water.
🌸 Day 3 – Let Go of Control
- Yoga:
- Forward Bend (Uttanasana) – surrender to the ground.
- Cat-Cow (Marjaryasana-Bitilasana) – flow with breath.
- Seated Twist – release tension.
- Meditation: Imagine putting all worries in a river and letting them float away.
- Mantra:
- “Om Namah Shivaya” (I bow to the divine inside me).
- Diet: Warm soups, steamed vegetables, herbal tea.
🌸 Day 4 – Compassion Day
- Yoga:
- Heart-Opening Pose (Camel Pose – Ustrasana).
- Warrior II (Virabhadrasana II) – strength with calm.
- Relax in Shavasana.
- Meditation: Send kind thoughts: “May I be happy. May others be happy.”
- Mantra:
- “Lokah Samastah Sukhino Bhavantu” (May all beings be happy and free).
- Diet: Fresh fruits in the morning, light grains like rice or quinoa in the afternoon. Avoid anger-causing foods (too spicy, too oily).
🌸 Day 5 – Silence & Awareness
- Yoga:
- Gentle stretching of arms, legs, neck.
- Bridge Pose (Setu Bandhasana).
- Sitting meditation posture.
- Meditation: Practice 10 minutes of silence. Just watch your breath.
- Mantra:
- “So Hum” (I am That – meaning, I am part of the whole).
- Diet: Light fasting or eat fruits only. Drink warm water.
🌸 Day 6 – Forgiveness
- Yoga:
- Triangle Pose (Trikonasana).
- Seated Forward Bend (Paschimottanasana).
- Lotus Pose (Padmasana) – if comfortable.
- Meditation: Think of someone who hurt you. Breathe out anger, breathe in forgiveness.
- Mantra:
- “Om Mani Padme Hum” (Compassion, forgiveness, love).
- Diet: Warm khichdi (rice + lentils), vegetables, avoid sweets and fried food.
🌸 Day 7 – Surrender the Ego
- Yoga:
- Do a gentle full-body flow, combining poses you liked from the week.
- End in Child’s Pose.
- Meditation: Sit quietly and say, “I am not above anyone, I am not below anyone. I am one with all.”
- Mantra:
- “Aham Brahmasmi” (I am divine, I am whole).
- Diet: Simple sattvic food – fresh fruits, light grains, milk or plant milk, nuts.
🌟 Extra Tips for the Week
- Wake up early, around sunrise if possible.
- Drink warm water after waking up.
- Avoid negative news, gossip, and too much social media.
- Write down one good thing about yourself and one good thing about others each day.
🌟 Final Conclusion by Shoaib Nasir
Ego is like a wall. It separates us from love, from peace, from each other, and even from God. When ego lives, humanity dies. But when ego dies, real humanity is born.
We are not big or small, not rich or poor, not powerful or weak—we are all one breath, one light, one family of the same Creator.
Ego says, “I am better than you.”
Love says, “You and I are one.”
The day we kill ego, that day wars will end, hate will end, division will end. That day every human will see another human as their own soul. That day the world will shine with peace like never before.
Brothers and sisters, the time is now. Don’t wait for tomorrow. Ego has fooled us for thousands of years. It has made humans fight, cry, and suffer. Enough is enough. Break this chain.
Say in your heart:
👉 “I am not above anyone. I am not below anyone. I am with everyone.”
This is not just a lesson—it is a revolution. If each of us kills our ego, the whole humanity will rise. A wave of love, a storm of peace, a new light will cover the earth.
After reading this, you have only two choices:
- Keep your ego and stay in darkness.
- Or kill your ego and bring light to yourself and the world.
Choose love. Choose peace. Choose humanity.
🌍 When ego ends, the whole of humanity begins. 🌍
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